DOES BUSINESS AND FRIENDSHIP WORK?
My 'sharp on numbers' mom says there are no emotions in business, and I gulp to that idea or mindset because I'm both passionate and sensitive to people. There wouldn't be a business structure if I wasn't an artist who feels it all.
The reality is that I've been disappointed by people I held so close to my heart.
So, I hated returning to my mother nodding in approval. "You were right."
BUT! That's life.
There is heartbreak in friendships, intimate relationships, AND business. These are called expectations: nothing less, nothing more.
To give you a personal perspective: Sara came into my life when I promised myself I'd never mix friendship and working together.
It was freakin' hard to bounce back to a woman whose heart is pure gold.
On our first meeting, she held my hand, and we prayed together.
-Wait, what? We're supposed to talk numbers.
I'd take a spontaneous trip to Romania, and she would look me dead in the eye. "Bro, I got you.", in her Colombian accent.
She and her husband, Miguel, are the troopers and the angels I needed to feel at peace again.
So this is a long story, but it comes to a short and simple truth: Thank you.
Thank you for waking up so early to show up like it's showtime.
Thank you for your honesty, work ethic, and loyalty.
Thank you for healing a part I didn't think I could open up again.
To my mother, I wish there were no emotions in business, but we're humans, and I cannot change that.
To myself: You're doing your best and that makes you a winner.
How do you overcome challenges in relationships related to business?